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I just don't understand people anymore, I really don't.  How can someone that you considered an important part of your life, for so very long simply turn and walk away without a word of explanation?  Better then that, how can they simply try to re-enter your life out of the blue?  What right do they think they have to their past relationship with you?  Do they really think they have a place in your life anymore, after turning their backs?  The answer is no.  You don't get to come back, you don't get have a say or a place in this family anymore.  You don't get to see how we are, or what we're doing.  You were there, you were watching and listening before-there was no reason for you to leave in the first place.  No one asked you too, infact having you there would have made things easier and maybe a little more pleasant.  But now, that time done.  That relationship is over, it has come to an end and served it's purpose.  You showed me that, you did it and showed us all.  But don't worry, you're not the only one.  There are more ignorant hateful unworthy people out there just like you, that did the same thing and you are all right there together.  We don't want you or need you anymore.  Stop trying to come around, just go away-live your life and be happy.  That's what we are doing, I promise you that.

You said goodbye to us, by walking away I am saying goodbye, period.
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with love, Lela
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Expecting to Much

I just read something on Facebook that really does make a lot of sense, it goes like this:

"If you expect the world to be fair with you just because you're fair-your fooling yourself.  That's like expecting a lion not to eat you just because you didn't eat him."

In other words, just because you're kind and understanding to others, doesn't mean they will be kind and understanding back.  Some people are just not kind, understanding, faithful, truthful, trustworthy or even a good person. I am not speaking of anyone in general.  Just speaking about the world we live in.

It won't change me from being kind and understanding, especially to the ones I love the most but it is something powerful to remember when I am feeling "sorry" for myself for not getting back what I throw out to the universe.

with love, Lela
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