Not sure what it is....

Friday, April 10, 2015

Do you ever feel like you carry the weight of most of your relationships?  I wonder if all people this way from time to time.

I just seem to really go out of my way stay in touch with friends that live instate & out of state, yet they don't seem to bother to do the same.  I don't feel like they don't care for me because of their decisions to stay to themselves, but I feel as though from time to time it would be nice to get a little "hey Lela, I miss you-I hope you're doing good" or just a "hey".

Sometimes I wonder if I am not a great person, and maybe that is why people decide to never reach out.  Maybe they are.  I don't know what the answer is-I just often feel alone.

2 comments

  1. Don't you DARE make this about you -- you ARE WORTHY. People...well, people just don't care anymore. We are very self-centered as a society these days -- technology has taken over truly staying in touch. And it is sad.

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  2. Maybe people just feel as though that they see something on facebook that we are connected to each other and involved in each others lives? I know we've talked about this before. I reach out to my friends, all of them-at least once a month if not more. I make a point to, so I am not one of those people.

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