Come'on Now Friends.....

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Have you ever noticed that people, your friends in particular, don't really want to nor do they have time to really listen to what you have to say?  They just really don't care, not really!  They really only talk to you so they can brag about whatever amazing thing has happened to them lately or bitch about something shitty.  All of which and everything in the middle I am game for.  I like to listen to my friends, provide some feedback & even, dare I say-talk about myself.

I have noticed that a lot of my friendships are still so very one sided.  I get my ear talked off, or paragraphs upon paragraphs via messenger or text about their issues, or accomplishments yet once they ask me how I am doing, and I respond they have little so say.

If I return the favor, then I get asked "what's wrong with you?"....

Buggers, I just am at a loss really.  But in the end, I have to do what is good for me and if something bothers me enough and goes on to long, I'll eventually just give up and move on.  If you're wondering if I call the friend on the carpet, the answer is no-and I don't want to have to have that type of conversation with someone because most of the time I have found it's just that persons personality & I don't want to change anyone-they just may not be for me.  Not only that, but I don't like to argue with someone about such things either.

I know this is something I've bitched about before-but I guess I never learn.

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